[QUESTION] Single Black Gay Men: Why Do You Even WANT To Be In A Relationship?!

Discussion in 'Dating and Relationships' started by Nick Delmacy, Dec 30, 2015.

  1. OhSheit

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    So there you have it folks, this why Nick Delmacy is single.
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    NOT RIHANNA!!! LOL
    *Vital Signs Zero*....
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    You know I still luh you doe...You my lil Souja Boy...

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    It's all love though
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    Hmmm,someone may finally be able to take up the reigns of my usual back and forths with Nick.Well done sir.
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    Yaaaay! We back together!

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    Damn. ..that's all that I got...

    I said it you did it. Lmao.
     
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    See, just when shyt started getn good, u had to fux my entire late night/early mornin/life up w this! Lmao

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    But, this is all exactly why I said I was pullin a 1 n done here in this thread...

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    I've been in a relationship for 5 years now. Neither one of us do social media except for career identities. Neither one of us have a slew of gay male friends. As a matter of fact: Nick is one of only five gay male friends that I have. One thing I'll say is me and my dude were never "looking" to be in relationship. We met on a bus. We hung out. We kept hanging out. We shacked up; got a place. We never had expectations. The one thing I will definitely agree with is one of these comments that said a lot of gay men are damaged... and then when you tack black onto the gay men descriptor, you're talking damage with no limits. So its hard. Whatever happens between me and my dude from here on out I feel lucky that I got to be a part of the "us". And overall I just thank him for keeping me out of the gay male dating pool for all these years because I remember it well.
     
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    I believe we all desire love in some form or fashion whether it be companionship, friend with benefits, or a monogamous relationship at the end of the day. However, if you cannot honestly say that you love yourself, before pursuing a relationship with another person than how can you expect that person to love you? I know we sometimes get caught up in these media relationships that we often see via television, IG, or FB. However, no one really knows the nature or the journey those relationships took to get to that point. I myself even sometimes sit and wonder if I'll ever experience a gay black love relationship like: Kordale & Kaleb, Nate & Robert, Miles & Milan, but trying to model your relationship after those media couples could be dangerous at times. You often see the glits and glam of those relationships, but never the struggles (i.e.: the sleepless nights, disagreements, or the financial struggles). All anyone is able to witness are the wedding vids, and staged date night pics that are posted to social media; but how many of those couples would be willing to give up all the fame just to have a successful relationship with their former partner? We as a community really need to stop comparing our relationship to others, because unless you're willing to trade places with the couple you're envying.
     
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    Right.Or they'll love you,but you won't feel like you deserve it so you'll never be able to accept it.
     
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