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  1. Austin MD

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    I wanted to know if I was tripping today. Me and my boyfriend got into an argument because one of his best friend let it out that he has seen my “sexy nudes” I send my bf throughout the week. I told my BF that my nudes are for his eyes only and I didn’t appreciate him and his friend having a full blown conversation about my dick. It’s one thing if I was just a random hookup and I told him I’m cool if his friend saw the pics of me before we were official but since we are committed he shouldn’t be showing or sending new pics to them. My boyfriend think I’m overreacting and guys do this all the time. He even brought up me showing my ass on Twitter but that’s totally different.

    I told him I don’t like it and seriously considering not sending them anymore. Is this something that guys do because when I was in relationships with women I never let my friends see her naked? Help me out!!
     
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    Eh.
    Have sent tasteful nudes but nothing full Monty.

    I wouldn't share my dude's nudes with my friends. I wouldn't like him to share mine either even though they don't show anything more than what IG allows.

    However the way some messy gays are you wouldn't want to share your bfs nudes with them because they'll find themselves trying to have your man so they can see how it was.
     
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    Just remember that there are no “For Your Eyes Only” pictures, except in James Bond films. If you share a nude with someone, just assume, technology being what it is, that it may or can be disseminated elsewhere for whatever reason. Nothing stays secret forever. Just ask conservative talk show host “Dr Laura”. She gave nudes to a boyfriend in the 70s, twenty years later the Internet was invented, he got mad, she got embarrassed, and her detractors got ammo....
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    Since we all here got to see your admittedly ample and beautiful bubble butt (lol), you should both draw a line in the sand and have a talk about ground rules, and what will and will not be allowed going forward. Also, depending on how you feel about your peen possibly appearing on Times Square, maybe even get something in writing in case of a break-up, to be able to take action on a future breach of trust.
     
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  4. Jai

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    I don't send nudes...I have taken quite a few before tho. I don't think his BF should have showed the nudes. I'd probably tell my bf off. Dick or ass pics don't be showing & I won't show his.
     
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    Yea nah, that's out of line in my opinion. If we're together, I don't understand why you would want your friends to see your man's offerings...

    If you one of my lil freaks then I'm def sharing them hoes lmaoo
     
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    Clear red flag. This is not okay. This is a serious beech of privacy and trust. Period.
     
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    I don’t send nudes for this exact reason. Because at the end of the day, once they leave your device you have ZERO control over them.

    I’d be mad as hell if I were in your situation. In my opinion, that’s a huge ass violation. I would never do that to my BF nor would I allow that with me.
     
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    Right.

    I hope there isn't a amateur flick he has of yall. He probably got that shit on Pornhub.
     
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    Nope fortunately we haven’t recorded any of our fuck sessions. Today he knows that showing friends shit doesn’t fly with me.
     
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    Put that foot down.

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    This past week has been something to say the least. We’re back on good terms and he apologized. He gave me the permission to give him a “punishment!” I don’t know what it should be lol!!
     
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    The punishment should be not to record yall fucking so yall wont have to revisit this issue again.
     
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    Of course its inappropriate, but isn't it also weird as fuck that he would share pics of your nude body to a friend?

    If you were a casual date or hook up, sure, but who the fuck shows a freak nude pic their boyfriend sends them to friends or anyone else for that matter?

    Its obviously for their eyes only. Even more crazy is knowing that no one just sends or share a pic without some kind of commentary. So what the fuck was the conversation with it?
    "Look at my boyfriend dick and ass, what do you think"? :dahell:

    Unless your leaving out that you and your dude are open and welcome sex partners into your relationship for occasional fun (which would be nothing wrong with that) and he was showing your goods as material to see if his boi would be interested in having fun with the two of you, it seems troublesome he was just sharing for kicks. WTF
     
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    We are definitely not open. Basically he was sending his best friend a picture in a way admiring my body and dick. I’m was pissed because I sent them to him and only him. He’s well aware that sending my nudes are a no and for the time being I’m going to stop. We need to build some trust back that has been tarnished.
     
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    Facts. His sharing your nudes while you're actively together isn't ok. Of course, there could be some pride about "look what I got" though clearly it's a violation of trust. That aside is gay behavior at it's most irresponsible. Not necessarily on you for taking the pix but on the share. Hopefully your pics are headless for it's going to get leaked. Facts. I've seen my dic pic on Tumblr before posted by a former situation I stretched out.
     
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    @Austin MD Is it possible you can post said pics you sent to him so a determination can be made of how egregious the offense was? :thinking:
     
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    Don’t tempt me LOL! I’m trying to be a good boy hahaha :bronbad:
     
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    So I’ve been thinking and I can show this one since I’m still in my underwear! Y’all better Thank @OckyDub for this!!

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    *covers him up with a blanket and starts rapidly looking around*

    Chiiillleee if you don't get yo ass........!
     
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    I don’t believe that you’re tripping. Your boyfriend is wrong, he needs to own this, and apologize. If he cannot or will not make this right, it’s a red flag. His behavior is abusive and has the potential to get worse. I hope that I’m wrong about this, but history tells me that it’s unlikely. Best to you.
     
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    Keep your boot on his neck. Don’t let him off easy.
     
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