The one who got away

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  1. NewAfrikan

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    Does anyone has someone they haven't spoken to in years, that they still think of. Even when you dealt with other people since then. I don't understand why someone I didn't even sleep with or kiss keeps popping up in my mind. He was the 1st person I caught serious feelings for way back in 2010. We were both 17 and our friendship started off very innocent. Eventually we would start making time just to hangout with each other. Being that young we were both was scared about catching feelings for men. as our friendship progressed he tried to sleep with me a few times. But I was terrified, and he was known as the man back in High school, so he had a "image" to uphold. After I admitted to him that I liked him he started to impregnate multiple girls trying to hide this info from me , while becoming very hot and cold towards me. After I found out he was having a child, I cut him off. I just don't understand why do I keep thinking of him
     
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    This happens to me because I really don't date a lot...so with fewer dudes in my history, some of them pop up in my head from time to time...Sucks that most of them became past tense due to their actions, not mine, yet I still keep thinking about the positives they offered. Crazy how the memory can be so selective.

    However, I wouldn't call them "the ones that got away" since they were wack ultimately. I'd only put that title on quality dudes that I messed up with by being too picky or juggling too many other guys at the same time, not the other way around.
     
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    I don't know if this counts. But a couple years ago, I was working as a busboy at this very popular restaurant in the LA/Hollywood area.

    We were outsourced to attend this big media premiere event at Universal Studios Hollywood in their back studio area.

    So I was given a temporary promotion kind of to serve drinks and appetizers to people. I had this cart and kiosk sort of in this backstage area, to where I had all the wine glasses and food I was giving out to different tables.

    One of the electricians who was also apart of an outsourced company, who was in charge of the lighting and sound and stuff like that technicians, who I kept gawking at as the night went on, was this hairier and more rugged version of Andrew Garfield, was low key flirting with me, and my dumb ass was not getting his hints. I just thought he was being nice, but looking back, he kept coming back to my cart and asking me stupid and inane questions. He was being unusually friendly with me.

    I decided to just ignore him and stay focused on my work.

    After that night, I never saw him again, as I said we were at an outsourced event, and it was for that occasion.

    I feel so stupid for not getting his hints, I do. He was really handsome.

    But yeah, what can you do? That's my, "the one that got away story."
     
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    I don't have one that got away.........I just have many that I threw away.
     
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