Trans Man Gives Birth to baby Girl

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  1. OckyDub

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    I'm confused too.
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    LOL gender identity and sexual identity are not the same. Transgender people can still be homosexual just as this person who is married to another man.
     
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    Which is the same thing Caitlin Jenner is saying @ockydub . Most the comments I have seen are similar to "why is she....what is she doing with a dude if she's a dude... Did she take it up the Duke shoot..." and etc.

    I'm just not understanding why people feel so involved about this man and his baby ? Not a one of these people buying the first bag of Pampers.
     
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    I remember coming across his video blogs on YouTube. He has an interesting history. He grew up as a cisgender female. At one point he identified as a butch lesbian and dated women exclusively. Then he transitioned and became a heterosexual transman. But after a while, he started to develop an attraction to men. Now he's married to a guy. I think he identifies as pansexual.
     
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    For some folks, their sexuality is very fluid compared to others.
     
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    Well I think the "involved" part is because he choose to put his business out there, thus opening himself up to the questions or scrutiny. Derogatory comments aside, I do think people have valid questions based on not fully understanding...I just found some of the more "honest" questions funny.
     
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    Well, if they are happy about the baby, I am happy for them. It's not that deep...and it's not that complicated. Drugs/Medicatons are not always 100%. Just because he was taking male harmones, does not mean he was not still ovulating.. shiznit happens, you deal with it, and you move on.. Congrats to the parents!!
     
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    There was a video I watched on YouTube about a transman, who is a top, who's partner was straight, who went off hormones to have a baby. He went in depth about how being pregnant and having a baby totally made him depressed, and his partner was on explaining how he went from straight to being a bottom with a trans man. It was very interesting. I wish I could find it again.
     
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    ManMommy?
     
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    A lot of people, straight, gay and bisexual, haven't grasp transexuality. It is about gender identity.

    For me, it's clear that he's a pre-op transgendered male and not a post-op transgendered male, being that he still has the vagina, which allowed him to still get pregnant.
     
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    rocks please do.
     
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    This is very interesting. My question would be how will this be explained to the child? I'm sure the child will love both parents. I do wonder if the child would see everyone as sexuality fluid and not in hetero-normative roles.
     
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    It's in your viewing history. Lol
     
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    So I found it, it was in my viewing history, like @ControlledXaos said. I watched it over a year ago so that was a bit of a task lol. I've attached two of the videos, one of them is a three-part video, but I'm sure the other two parts can be seen at the end. Also, I forgot that they were an interacal couple. Lots of stuff going on here lol.
     
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    I imagine the child won't need much explanation. It'll probably come up casually in conversation and she won't think much of it. Little kids don't overthink things like adults do.
     
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    As a kid, you are transparent. However, what's likely going to happen is that the kid will look at the standard mother and father image with other kids as he or she will grow up and that's when the questions will kick in. Not to mention other grown ups (parents and non parents) getting into personal business and asking "Well, where is your mother?", especially when he (as a transgendered man) has to show up and doing things and act on behalf of the kid's behalf. And let's not get into those people who are phobic of anything not heterosexual and what will come with that. It's going to be a lot.
     
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    Of course there are going to be questions, but it's not going to be a big deal within the family. The big deal is going to come from outside the family. The child is going to realize their family is different, but it's not going to be this huge inquisition that everyone assumes it will be. Adopted children or children of interracial parents like myself noticed our families were different than others but it didn't become an issue until everyone outside asks questions. The child understands. Other people don't.
     
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    It's easy to say the child understands; however, let's not be oblivious to that child and what that child will face. I know you are responding based on your personal experience, but adoption/interracial relationship vs. adoption/transgendered is totally different. A lot of people, even in his family, haven't grasp transsexuality.
     
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    I'm saying for the child. All of the things you're pointing out come from society, not the child. The child is not gonna care. They may only start to care because everyone around them is going to say that they should.

    It reminds me of the argument that gay couples shouldn't have children because their kids will be teased. That's not the family's problem. It's society's shitiness.
     
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    I got you. I'm just pointing out that it's not going to be easy for the child. It's not right that it will be, it just will be.
     
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    I'm pretty sure that the parents will explain everything to the child. However, there will be people outside of the parents that can't and won't grasp transsexuality and it's going to be a mental tug-of-war.
     
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