Walking Hand in Hand

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  1. OckyDub

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    I don't knock gay couples who feel comfortable with themselves to hold hands while in public. Me on the other hand....I have .05% desire to hold hands with my dude in public.

    Nope...it has nothing to do with my sexuality because I have no doubt if I was straight, I would only hold hands with my girl because she nagged me to death and forced me to it because reasons. I would do it just shut her the hell up.

    What are your thoughts on this?

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    I do not mind a little hand holding, I have done it on dates. When I held dudes hand, I felt a sense of ownership with a hint of Dominance.
    I would never initiate it, but wouldn't pull my hand away.
    This is how I look on my dates, height wise, when we hold hands. lol
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    Nope. I hate PDA from both straight and gay couples. I live a personal life and I don't want folks in my business, whether that be with a male or female.


    Now when we are in private.
     
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    If it's my boyfriend, then I don't see a reason not to. Fxck what these other folks think.

    I understand that not everybody is about PDAs, but there really is something special and warm about them. It is a marker that this person is mine. If my partner wants that, I'm cool with it. If he doesn't, then that's fine too. It's also important to be aware of your surroundings because mofos are crazy and may attack you (physically or verbally)... But if you're in a good space, then holding hands or even kissing your boyfriend/husband is life.

    And if you're crushing on a guy and you gauge that he's cool with the PDAs, then making that move to hold his hand or kiss him can be the perfect opportunity to get that guy! Even if it's in public.
     
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    Lol go ‘head Lancer. Right now that’s me and my dude, except I’m the tall one. Robert and Amy on Everybody Loves Raymond...
     
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    I hate the idea of holding hands. I do not want to hold hands in private, in public, at the mall, at the club, underwater, on the moon, or anywhere else. It doesn't have anything to do with what anyone else thinks. I just like my space. I'm not super affectionate anyway so just the idea annoys me lol
     
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    Me and my partner will hold hands if we're sitting down somewhere. We've taken long plane rides, long bus rides, etc. and we'll hold hands and rest them on one of our laps. Sometimes we'll fall asleep like that.

    I think it's a little awkward to hold hands when walking or standing though. Especially since he and I both have pretty wide strides, but we have done it here and there. Usually not for very long and usually only when I'm tipsy. We also only do it in areas that we're comfortable with.
     
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    I am not a huge fan of PDA but hand holding is something reserved for extremely special occasions. Sometimes I deploy hand holding as a defense mechanism. I use it whenever an the mister are in unfamiliar safe places. Sometimes when we want to display a united front. Sometimes when I want to say I got you as a sign of moral support. Outside of those rare occasions. I do not engage in pda. Public kissing or other performative displays.
     
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    Really hope one day I’m brave enough to just hold hands in public. It’s hard out here for a brother especially in the Carolinas where it’s still taboo in some ways.
     
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    Its a no for pda I feel like folks be doing to much to put the stamp on things for public observation. Hand holding feels so uncomfortable and if anything pops off your not ready to respond (hood mentality)
     
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    I say do what makes you comfortable. For me I normally don't engage in PDA with my partner. The times we have done that it was in a place where there are other gay people around, like a bar or club. We don't go out to those places much at all. So holding hands in public is not something we do normally. We're just not that type of couple. He's a pretty conservative guy. I'm not that big on displaying affection. That's not how I was raised. Also we're both conscious of the fact that in certain places it's unsafe to be a visibly gay couple.
     
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    Nah, it's not my steez. I am discreet and prefer sentimentality displays of affection to be done in private.
     
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