What Makes A Gay Man Start Doing Porn?

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  1. Nick Delmacy

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    I just honestly wanna know what makes a gay guy go from having aspirations like this:

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    ...To doing porn like this:

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    ...And thinking it won't hurt their core aspirations?

    ...Or was being porn/gay famous really the goal all along?

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    :thinking:this is an interesting topic cause this could be said 4 some black straight actors too. Example:Louie smalls, jax slayer, Rickey J all played sports competitively in college.

    But in some ways I'm glad he does porn cause he does not come from a place of struggle n has options unlike others.

    Maybe the money or equity offered was too good to pass up.:yeshrug:
     
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    Maybe he's just sexual and likes to be watched. Some people are freaks like that. Also, the pay seems good at the moment. Straight men (&gay) are making 6 figures a month from desperate gay men via porn.

    For example...
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    $3.00 is just something he's doing for a week but it's usually more than that. In order to see and like his content, you have to subscribe. He's straight with a woman...and has 66,000 likes. He is making a sh*t ton of money from gays. As sexy as he is, I like seeing two men get busy & just can't sit up and watch straights have sex all the time.

    Wes has an OF account too...
     
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    I guess he would rather get paid 25K a month instead of 25K a year.
     
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    Validation. This dude Wes would easily be welcome on someone's arm. But maybe he got an HIV diagnosis (which no1 cares about anymore) and, unfortunately, decided to run to porn. Idk.

    But I do know that most of them 'end up' in porn...
     
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    This analysis is so weird. What in the world does HIV have anything to do with the question presented in the thread?

    But if your throwing theories out there as to why an inspiring multimedia journalist would do porn and you state he would be easily welcome on someones arm, but maybe was diagnosed with HIV so decided to do porn?
    While also as a side note in the same sentence say "no1 cares anymore about HIV anymore", then why would he do porn as a result of an HIV diagnosis? He would still be welcomed on someones arm having HIV because nobody cares about it anymore, right? (im confused)

    And by most of "them" end up in porn, who specifically is THEM?
     
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    Most blk dudes 'end up' in porn. They're not often gym body, hot men. Them nigas be skinny as fuk, unlike their white counterparts.

    I mentioned HIV because it, amongst other realities, is obviously the reason why soooo many young black 22 yr olds enter porn.

    And I said it's not a big deal because soooo many gay men are now on prep, and we're privy to 'undetectable' and shit like that. Was not, and would NEVER attempt to shame anyone for a diagnosis. An HIV positive man would NOT, at all, be an issue for me in 2019.

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    I actually enjoy watching him even though I wish he would tone it done just a lil bit when he is getting dug.
     
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    Tone down how? By not moaning manly or being quiet? Lol
     
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    You probably didnt mean harm, but I can see why Omega was offended. Your comment did come off bringing up HIV with porn in a "HIV Is Because of Gay Porn" shaming kind of way (especially one isnt the reason for the other).
     
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    After looking at BET "Young, Gifted and Broke", I can see one specific reason why he has done porn. He is probably at least 20,000 in student loan debt easy. And most people don't make that amount in a year as a full time student.

    I can say that at this point with porn, regardless of one's situation, it is most likely because he or she wants to do it.
     
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    You have to remember that with these websites that distribute porn for viewership, they are getting their percentage before any porn performer gets a cut. But they are making a check.

    As for the free sites, unless they have a deal for residuals, they are not seeing a dime. And that is why a lot of porn performers are stripping, escorting, doing hosting gigs for club appearances, and to some degree keeping their day job.
     
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    Yea, I worded that very carelessly. My apologies. I was drunk typing. I wasn't trying to equate porn w HIV, I was attempting to support my point about black men 'ending up' in porn. Considering the number of raw sites that were around long before prep started becoming a big deal, and the number of young black men that performed on them, and the number of them who have spoken out about them being a muuuch less stringent industry when it comes to testing than their straight white counterpart industry...you get my point.

    The number of young blk gay men who are essentially tossed out of their families for being gay, is why many of them end up in porn. Black people, unfortunately, don't often have the luxury/privilege of 'trying' porn out like random white dudes from the midwest.
     
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    I know...someone needs to punch me in the face. I'm working on it tho.
     
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    :thinking:Yeah but does porn actually pay that much though?
     
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    @BrentForays must have receipts that we don't...

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    Someone posted a pending amount to their account. Could have been edited but it was 5,000 grade. Honestly, I'd do it. Have sex with my bf or fo nasty things (since everything is obscure these days I could hide my face. save enough money and invest it or whatever and quit after a lil bit
     
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    I knew exactly what you meant.

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    Wes sounds totally different here than in his porn videos. Me thinks he is butching it up when he's getting plowed.

    I find it hard to believe these guys are getting rich from porn or even middle-class comfortable. As has been stated in a previous comment, most pornstars resort to escorting, stripping, "massage services", or a combination of the three. Anyone telling you that they're making six figures from only fans is a damn liar and I know this from someone who has a lot of subscribers and doesn't make anywhere near that. The proof is in the pudding. How many of these rich pornstars are still filming their scenes with iphones in rooms with one chair and mattresses on the floor? Where is the money going? Also, most of them end up quitting after a while because they don't get paid like they're supposed to.

    The only reason I can think of for doing porn is pocket change. Most of the dudes are hella young and are probably sleeping on somebody's couch and trying to get around on public transportation. A few dollars helps put food in the stomach. I can see these young dudes being desperate enough to fuck on film for a quick $200. I can't imagine Wes having people around him that tried to talk him out of this. I'm sure most of his friends are cheering him on based on the one screenshot of his social media. When your own friends/supporters don't expect much of you, you're in for a hard life.
     
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    smh...

    I just watched the video above.

    What type of fem queer code-switch shit is this? How/why does he sound like a typical gay in the video but sound completely different in porn?

    :camby:
     
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    Can we also admit some of these kats aint fuking for survival but fuking for Jordans and tattoo monies?
     
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    He can pass in porn because notice he says very few words. It's easy to sound "regular" when all you're saying is daddy.

    And to these young gay black men, Jordans and tattoos are survival. Can't be caught dead at Bulldogs in some Reebok.
     
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    Lmao. I admit, I'm ignorant to the porn business. I just watch. I assumed he had one of these OnlyFans subscription accounts that had a whole bunch of followers. I grossly overestimated I see lmao.
     
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    anecdotal, but I know a guy who is a great software engineer and well-known in tech. Both my former boss' boss and my current boss' boss follow him. Here is his twitter

    Thot Matrix Printer (@aphyr) | Twitter

    As you can see pretty graphic, very twitter gay pornstar... it's so weird seeing him walk around the office one time lol

    I saw a video of him getting plowed. cant find it though

    Anyways, all this to say that maybe doing porn and public nudity in general isn't that much of a big deal anymore?
     
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    This whole thread got me thinking............... @takeyourmeds91 when we goin start our porn empire lol;)
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    I've always thought this. New clothes, clubbin' money, finish up some tatz, video game system, a nice ounce, but I highly doubt any porn actor after comin' into the game after '98 was gonna be a 'career actor' with longevity. I assumed since way back in the 'Latino Fan Club' days that ain't no way in hell they makin' any type of money from the production company if we can find any of they sht online for free.
     
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    Dis rat hyeah...

    No need to apologize, you’ve essentially described Chicago. There are numerous young LGBT men and women of color on the street and they are exploited and used by white gays of means. I see it all the time. Every word you spoke is truth.
     
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