Why do men get angry and bitter with rejection?

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  1. NewAfrikan

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    I've been in Atlanta for about a month and I rented a room to stay in until I found a job. Everything was fine I was comfortable there. Until my landlord texted me on Monday around 1030pm to go into his room and jerk off. I became extremely uncomfortable and I found an apartment by Wednesday. He became extremely hostile once I told him I wasn't going to pay him rent today. I just decided to stay in a hotel until the apartment was ready. He rushes me out the house when I was packing and so I took my belongings and put it on the curve on the street, he wanted me to come back inside and pick up the papers I left. I told him that's not my problem anymore and asking him to leave me alone. He tries to hit me, I blocked, threatens to shoot me and then he tries to steal my suitcase. My uber came and I left. All of this happened because I turned down him sexually harassing me. The more I try to be around gay men, The more I realize that many are very sick in their head.
     
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    Yes many of them are...and I have had two very similar situations as you described.

    I don't know how old you are but I would say try not to allow it to impact you too much. You don't want to become isolated, overly cautious and a cynical angry tortured bastard like me. To the point where you want zero contact with other non-heterosexual men. I have and continue to possibly miss out on some cool male relationships.

    but...yeah fuk these faggots.
     
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    Da hell?!? I ain't never ran into any dudes like that the times I been.around dudes. Then again, I do remember one crazy bytch that tried to get one of my friends to hate me because we were close and he wanted him all.to himself. Go figure.
     
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    Sorry to hear about your bad experience with your ex landlord. That is some weird shit.
     
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    From what I have gathered from others(including here) and from your post, the only wrong thing you did was to move to Atlanta.

    Who woulda thunk me and Ocky would have something in common? LOL! ;)
     
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    It's about control and hind sight is 20/20. I wouldn't have disclosed my proclivity towards same gender at all to this guy. Perhaps you found his advertisement in a gay publication and thought it would be safe to answer, comfortable environmentally, and supportive to the "community". There are older established guys out there who prey on younger anguenues to the lifestyle or transplants to the city. I regret your experience here in Atlanta and hope it doesnt leave a bad impression or a fore warning of more fuckery to come. You were in control pf the situation and got tha phuk outta there. He was more pissed and got defensive because not only did you usurp his power but rejected him in his safe space-his home. Crazy af he asked you to j/o in his room. He may have had a cam set up somewhere and you would have been a pornhub post. Stay smart and aware about these people here. There are some good and progressive people here yo. Find your tribe. Welcome to Atlanta where the playas play.
     
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    It definitely left a very bad impression, I'm still trying understand how does a person think like that. But, I believe in karma and he will rent that spot out to another person and If/when he tries the same mess. They might not act as rational as I did.
     
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    I'm 24, I'm going to see what it's like when I move into my own spot. But, it's like why would you harass your tenant and expect them to keep paying you. I'm proud of how I handle the situation, because I didn't move down here to catch a case. But yeah, I rather just befriend straight guys, so I wouldn't have to deal with b.s. like that. It's like in my whole life I've met 1 gay guy that I would consider a friend. Everyone else has came across manipulative and/or predatory. I'm starting to see why women give up on men an start dating women.
     
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