wow that video was on point, sometimes people are on the various gay sights a4a, ect.ect. and are not even gay but are trying to set you up for a hold up. too many people do not know what they want, or want what is unattainable so the loses common point is the connection, as in sex minus a relationship. the only good note is that gays in the military can marry and get spouse bennys IT IS THE BEST OF TIMES IT IS THE WORST OF TIMES