We all have seen the online profiles that mention or state “No Fems”. To a lot of effeminate men, this statement is offensive.

I’m confused by the feminine men online who find this offensive but who are also themselves not sexually attracted to other feminine men and are not seeking another effeminate man for companionship.


Is it okay for a feminine man that has an online profile (whether looking for sex or looking for a long term relationship) to display “No Fems” in their profile if they are only looking for a masculine man?

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