Have You Seen Your Friends Naked?

By ControlledXaos | Posted Feb 23 2017 | 3 Comments  

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So if you haven’t seen @Ockydub’s naked spa post, this is what spawned this topic.  You may want to watch that first for context here.

I have seen some friends in various states of undress. I do not think that it is a big deal. Though I found it interesting how it was such a big deal for the one guy (Casey) in the video to see his friends junk. We gay men, well most of us, see naked dudes all the time. It doesn’t mean it has to sexual though. I found it interesting how the guy who was cool with it (Bart) was like “oh yeah we saw whats his face’s dick ” cause I’m thinking: ok, dude, who I assume is straight, do you remember all of the details of old boy’s bits? Lol Well he did recall the thigh lions.

“We’re not homies unless we’ve seen each other’s dicks. ” – Bart Kwan

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I think things are only weird if you make them weird. Now, considering the guys in the video were going to the Korean spa where nudity is expected, this context would be acceptable. Or for that matter you all went to the pool, beach, gym etc and you needed to change clothes in near each other either before and or after. Or hell Y’all could be at sex party or nude beach if that’s your thing.

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I’m not a nudist but I think sometimes people can make a bigger deal about nudity than needed. As long as there’s no cameras and recording going on, I’m cool. I also think that when we are blasted with images of guys who have ‘perfect’ bodies, that if you are average, thin, or overweight, body acceptance can be hard if you don’t fit that thin lane of what’s considered generally attractive. Then, you may feel a little bit jealous of your friends who may be in better shape or have bigger schlongs or phatter asses. Which, I think, should not be an issue. They are your friends. You’re not in a romantic relationship with them for these things to mater. Don’t forget,that even those ‘perfect body’ guys have insecurities as well though. We never know what people may be confident on or insecure about until they express it even if we’d think they have every reason to want to hide or be proud.

There’s definitely different opinions/comfort levels here which could be based on what you’re used to. Maybe for religious reasons you may not see other nude males. Or you are used to it because you played a team sport and the team used open communal showers. So you are used to seeing dicks and asses swinging and jiggling in the wind. However in the video mentioned, I got the impression that they were all just bonding as friends. You could tell that their being nude at the jjimjilbang wasn’t even a big deal to anyone.

Though, I imagine that someone out there in cyberland probably has turned pouring ice cold water on their penis into a fetish.

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So, have you seen your friends nude? Was it weird? Was it no big deal?

 

 

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ControlledXaos

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  1. KritiKal Analysis
    KritiKal Analysis | February 23rd, 2017
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    I have seen plenty of my friends naked. Again, it’s no big deal to me either. When I was a freshman in college, my residence hall/dorm had open showers so it was nothing to walk into the shower and see naked dudes. If anything, it taught us to be comfortable with our bodies or to be comfortable with not having friends due to the stench of body odor all because you didn’t want to shower around other dudes. I’ve seen a couple of my best friends naked and it wasn’t awkward at all. What was awkward was changing in a big tent after a race with one of my best friends and seeing another dude literally stalling around so he could see what I looked like when my towel dropped…

  2. TreDaDon
    TreDaDon | February 24th, 2017
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    Went to a bathhouse with a boyfriend & my best friend years ago. They were both packing & I’m average at best but to see my friend naked didn’t turn me on or make me feel strange, but when he looked at my BF’s peen before he wrapped that towel around his waist….I felt a little odd. My first & only time in a place like that. I felt like I was gonna have scarlet fever, diphtheria or some other nasty shit once I left that place. Nastiest place in the world!

  3. FREEDOM TRAIN
    FREEDOM TRAIN | February 24th, 2017
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    DUDES SEEING DUDES NAKED IS NOT A WRONG OR BAD THING. SAYING HURTFUL THINGS ABOUT A DUDE’S BODY [EVEN IF IT IS TRUE] IS NOT COOL. YOU WOULD BE SURPRISE THAT SOME FELLAS DON’T MIND WHEN YOU HAVE A WONDERING EYE. EVEN STRAIGHT GUYS TAKE A PEEK FROM TIME TO TIME. SEEING MY BUDDIES NAKED IS COOL TO ME. ITS ALSO TRUE AFTER AWHILE IT DOESN’T MATTER BEING NUDE. GUYS IN THE GYM LOCKER ROOM MAKING A ISSUE OF BEING PEEKED AT IS SOMETIMES UNCALLEDFOR. MOST FRIENDS , NUDITY IS NOT AN ISSUE , IT’S JUST FUN WHEN THERE ARE LOTS OF HOT MUSCLE MEN AROUND THAT ARE NUDE. LOL




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