Throwback Thursday – Who Would You Rather Date?
I’ll admit my set up and deliver could’ve been better when I created the hypothetical post years ago. It was the golden age of open Black gay athletes and ‘No Fats, No Fems’ dating victimization hysteria. Every Black gay with an opinion wanted to be…
QUESTION OF THE WEEK: What’s The Most Important Part In Relationships?
What’s the most important part in a relationship?
Do Tops Need Ladders for Tall Bottoms?
A buddy and I were sitting at the end of the bar near the door. The packed lounge was slightly humid and every time patrons would enter or exit, a nice breeze would blow and cool us off. This was due to the lounge having…
Have You Seen Your Friends Naked?
Have you seen your friends nude? Was it weird? Was it no big deal?
How Do You Get Ready For a Date?
How do you get ready for a date? I think it goes without saying that a shower or possible shave is obvious, but what are some quirkier, or out of the box things you personally do to get yourself ready for a date? For example,…
Rep Yo’ City: What’s Dope About Where You’re From?
Rep Yo’ City: Name or Show Us Things (or People) That You Love About (or That Originate From) Your City/State…Where you’re from or where you live now, doesn’t matter.
How Do You Change a Homophobic Mind?
I think anyone who’s gay and Black has had to face backlash. I recently came across the below meme on social media. I grew up with the subconscious knowledge that gay is wrong. It has always been implied when I was coming up. However, my…
Question Of The Week: My Pockets are Stacked but His are Wack
Ken and Sam just recently got married after dating for 3 years. Sam is a corporate executive and makes over $200,000 a year. Ken was working at a warehouse making $38,000 a year but due to an on the job injury, he is no longer…
If Coming Out Is Easier For Millennials, Why Are So Many Still Closeted?
Over the nearly 5 years that we’ve blogging in the LGBT space, we’ve seen a growing trend that younger men seem to have a much easier time Coming Out than the older men had.
Let’s Play A Game: Weird Science – What Would Your Perfect Guy Look Like?
If you had the ability to weird scientifically create a “Perfect Guy,” what would your parameters be?
[QUESTION] Single Black Gay Men: Why Do You Even WANT To Be In A Relationship?!
If all the examples and discussions we have about Relationships are from a negative perspective, why do so many single black gay men want to be in one so badly?
QUESTION: Does Your Family Turn Up During Gatherings? Or Are They Boring Like Mine?
Is your family really “Huxtable,” respectably discussing current events over a iced cold glass of water? Or does your family Turn Up more than a Tyler Perry movie?
QUESTION OF THE WEEK: $250 and Up…How Much Do You Spend On A Gay First Date?
Now that Cuffin’ Season 2015 is upon us, its time for the single gay men of the world to get booed up for these cold winter months. But how much are you willing to spend to find him?
Where Is the White LGBT Media on This Issue?
On June 17th 2015, suspected gunman Dylann Roof walked into a historical black church in South Carolina. It’s reported that after the bible study ended, he shot and killed 9 church members. It’s also being reported that he allowed a parishioner to live so they…
Should I Get Back Together With My Ex?
Dear Cypher Avenue, I’m a 26 year top and was recently contacted by my 26 year old ex. He wants to get back to team “us”; meaning start over and build into a new relationship. When we were together in the past, we were only…