Many of our readers are very interested in what goes on in the mind of Tops and/or Versatile men who lean on the more Dominant side of the gay spectrum.
For the first time ever, Cypher Avenue holds a roundtable conversation with a small sample of TOP men to find out what they want and what they think.
A no-holds-barred conversation with the fellas.
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What do they look for when dating?
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What kind of men do they go after?
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How do they find guys to date?
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Are Tops or Dominate men turned off by Aggressive Bottoms?
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What are their interests outside of ‘being gay?’
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Do they feel comfortable in Mainstream Gay Culture?
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Have they ever tried Bottoming?
Blah, Blah, Blah…
A never-before-heard frank and honest conversation with confident men who like to take control.
This is not about Hyper-Masculinity.
This is not about being Hard.
This is not about Bottom Shaming.
This is about finally hearing the POV of dominant gay men who confidently go after men that they want and have no reservations when it comes to taking the lead.
Coming exclusively to Cypher Avenue on February 02, 2015!
That’s like a million years away!!! We want it now.
I am saying! That’s too far away lol. But I am looking forward to hearing everyone from the site that is on it and also @nick and @ocky, please correct the error above from “dominate” to “dominant”.
Roll on Feb 2!!!
Can’t wait. This will be good.
Seems interesting from a conversational point of view, however I must say these terms,TOP and BOTTOMS, are for people on websites
”How do you know what you’re into with a guy sexually until you’re with him?” -Richie (Looking HBO)
Just a thought:)
Well….we actually have a name for that too…its called VERSATILE…all three titles/terms existed in the gay community long before websites (or even The Internet). #IJS
Hmmmmmm, you are walking a very thin and slightly egregious line with this one, Nick but even I am interesting in seeing how this conversation goes. We all know that masculinity/aggression/dominance is not always found in a specific bedroom sexual position preference. Discussions like this easily become a very thinly veiled attempt to give voice to foundational black gay untruths and stereotypes. But I guess we will see….
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Really looking forward to this one!
This should be interesting. I told Siri to remind me. I want to make sure I get a good spot in the comment section.
LMAO…
This is going to be interestingly good. I can’t wait to tune in. As a transwoman dating a bisexual man; I love the fact that my man is dominant and masculine two things that made me attracted to him in the first place along with a number of other reasons. I think some people often equate “dominance” to being “controlling” which is false.
Good point.
ready to hear from the fellas…