Throwback Thursday – Revisiting The Short Film ‘Slow’
For Throwback Thursday we revisit one of our first short films we featured on the site (over 7 years ago) which happens to also be one of our favorites exploring the act of ‘hooking-up’. I remember when I first watched the short and the feeling…
CA Podcast #63 – The “Light Skin vs Dark Skin” Episode
In this podcast, Ocky Williams and Nick Delmacy discuss if Chiron in Moonlight was effeminate, would the film be as beloved by gay men (7:50), if Light Skin vs. Dark Skin colorism exists in the Black Gay Community (16:00), the notion of traveling just to hook-up with unknown or exotic, foreign men (37:10) and their experiences of “going limp” during sex (49:40).
UPDATE: So a Guy Walks Into a Gym and Stabs His Ex-Boyfriend
Bryan Fearman pleaded guilty to attempted murder and received a 35-year sentence for stabbing his ex-boyfriend in the back with a kitchen knife at an L.A. Fitness in July 2015. Check out the details of the story reported on Cypher Avenue back on August 2015….
Kiki n’ Brunch
As my blogging history suggets, I usually don’t subscribe to and reject the cult of HIV activism and LGBTQ PrEP awareness; for reason that can be reviewed at: Is Gay Culture Normalizing HIV? National HIV Testing Day; Who Cares? Does HIV Really Matter Anymore? Despite…
Fuck You Valentine’s Day
You’re at work and notice all the flowers, balloons and shit folk are getting on Valentine’s Day. You over hear their plans of after work romantic dinners, while little cherubs dance and fly about with glee. WHO CARES? Valentine’s Day is definitely not a favorite…
Question Of The Week: My Pockets are Stacked but His are Wack
Ken and Sam just recently got married after dating for 3 years. Sam is a corporate executive and makes over $200,000 a year. Ken was working at a warehouse making $38,000 a year but due to an on the job injury, he is no longer…
QUESTION: Three Types of Men, Which Would You DATE If They Were Gay?
While in the supermarket today I saw these three magazine covers and had to ask The Squad:
Which of these 3 very different types of dudes would you date if he was gay?
That Time I Was “Reverse Slut Shamed” By A Black Gay Man
Yesterday I was speaking with a friend on the phone and I experienced something that has happened many times before. I was reverse slut shamed. Out of respect, I won’t say the friend’s real name but for now let’s just call him “Schmocky Schmilliams.” Just…
CA Podcast #45 – The “Settling For Him” Episode (Part 2)
In this podcast, hosts Octavius Williams and Nick Delmacy continue their previous discussion about dating and relationships by inquiring if Black Gay Men are prone to settling for what’s available to them.
CA Podcast #44 – The “Working On Me” Episode (Part 1)
In this podcast, hosts Octavius Williams and Nick Delmacy discuss the official start of Cuffin’ Season and Self Esteem Issues that have affected them in their dating lives over the years.
QUESTION OF THE WEEK: $250 and Up…How Much Do You Spend On A Gay First Date?
Now that Cuffin’ Season 2015 is upon us, its time for the single gay men of the world to get booed up for these cold winter months. But how much are you willing to spend to find him?
So I’m Now In the Friendzone
In an environment where there are social limitations and slim pickings of men of quality when does one cross the line selfishly in their own pursuit of “happiness”? The intro may be a bit verbose but what an opener, right! People are led to do…
So a Guy Walks Into a Gym and Stabs His Ex-Boyfriend
Bryan Fearman, 22, of Indianapolis walks into the LA Fitness Lawrence location where bae (Lerron McDowell) was getting his exercise on and allegedly stabs dude with a 10 inch kitchen knife. McDowell was taken away in an ambulance reportedly with the 10 inch knife still in…
CA Podcast #38: The “Reasons Why He Doesn’t Want You” Episode
In this podcast, Cypher Avenue founders Ocky Williams and Nick Delmacy discuss the Black Gay Men Obsessed With Interracial Dating, Light Skin vs Dark Skin in the Black Gay Community and Alternative Explanations for Gay Men Who Only Date Younger Men.
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