Sex with an Ex
“Some say the ex, make the sex, spec-tacular, make me lick you from yo’ neck to yo’ back, then ya, shiverin’, tongue deliverin’, chills up that spine, that ass is mine, skip the wine and the candlelight, no Cristal tonight,if it’s alright with you,we fuckin’…”…
Meryl Streep Calls BS on The Term Toxic Masculinity
Maybe it’s because Meryl Streep is a powerhouse Hollywood elite actress that she gets to say what the fuck she wants and not worry about being black-listed. At a panel discussion for the second season of HBO’s Big Little Lies Steep stated: “Sometimes, I think…
Revisiting Animal Drill
I was reviewing the Cypher Avenue Youtube channel thinking about the podcasts of yore that have since been removed (for valid reasons) when I noticed that the short film Animal Drill has over 1.2 million views and close to 300 comments. 6 years ago, Cypher…
Watch Gay Short Film – GOLD STAR
It’s pretty good directing when a story can be told with little words but more so with body language. Goldstar not only accomplishes this but also presents us with two Black non-heterosexual masculine leaning men. One even has a regular body (yeah his booty is…
Watch Gay Short Film – SPORTS!
The short film SPORTS tells what happens when your thirsty fem leaning roommate wants to go play basketball with you, just so he can see the guy you’re going to play with take his shirt off. The short is directed by Kyle Keiger and stars…
Throwback Thursday – Who Would You Rather Date?
I’ll admit my set up and deliver could’ve been better when I created the hypothetical post years ago. It was the golden age of open Black gay athletes and ‘No Fats, No Fems’ dating victimization hysteria. Every Black gay with an opinion wanted to be…
CA Podcast #68 – The “Coolest Shithole in the Jungle” Episode
In this podcast, Ocky Williams and Nick Delmacy discuss the H&M controversy, if 2018 will be the Year of the White Person, things they don’t want carried over from 2017, Donald Trump’s “Shithole” comment, Religion and Dating, Nick’s Adventures in Dating, the Army Bae distraction, Ginuwine refusing to kiss a trans-woman, if it’s okay to ask if a person is masculine or feminine on dating apps, the new Beard Game craze, dating Frank Ocean vs dating Donald Glover and many more topics!
When is Offensive Language Not Offensive
A couple of weeks ago I had a grandiose idea of doing a podcast involving other Cypher Avenue squad members. Due to scheduling conflicts I was only able to chat it up with member @BlackguyExecutive aka Winston Chesterfield. We had a cool conversation concerning “When is…
WTF Is Wrong with EJ Johnson?
Having to entertain family from out of town while still working every day, I know I’ve been neglectful in my activity on the site and with releasing podcasts. Guess what…my yellow ass will still be super busy for the next couple of days. In the…
Dear Ocky, I’m Being Treated Like a Side Piece
In this podcast we read a viewer’s email asking for relationship advice. Check out the letter below followed by my advice and commentary. Dear Ocky, Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 14 months. I’m 27 and he’s 41. With both work and…
Dissecting Hotep Logic on Homosexuality
In this podcast I question what appear to be two glaring opposing thoughts from the Pro-Black Conscious “Hotep” community as it relates to Black Male Homosexuality. Check out my dissection and commentary below. As always, please share your feedback and subscribe to my channel.
Toxic Masculinity and the Regressive Left
In this podcast I question why toxic masculinity seems to be the scapegoat in many incidences when males commit violent crimes and the same analysis is not used when females are violent offenders. I also briefly discuss how changes in Liberal ideology play apart in…
Genderless Men’s Fashion…Huh?
With headlines like, ‘The Most Exciting Show at New York Fashion Week‘ and ‘New Collection Upends Everything You’ve Ever Known About Men’s Fashion’; my expectations were high but after seeing the show in question, I was severely disappointed. Apparently this show was one of the…
Lil Portland Gets a Hair Cut. Chaos Ensues
After watching this video, I had and still have so many questions but first, check out the video for yourself below. Is this an example of how our community fails boys? Is Portland autistic, have learning disabilities or mental illness? Is male guidance the answer…
In the Moonlight, Ocky Williams is still Light Skin
After a brief drought, I’m back with some follow up reflections on the film Moonlight. In the podcast I touch on: My connection with the film as it relates to my coming of age as a non-heterosexual Black kid. How self-identified Black Queer men label…