A Short Rant: Why I Refuse To Date Dog Owners
Dogs can be disgusting and annoying creatures, especially when not your own. This is something that dog owners (and pet owners in general) that you’re dating often forget or just dont care about.
Sex with an Ex
“Some say the ex, make the sex, spec-tacular, make me lick you from yo’ neck to yo’ back, then ya, shiverin’, tongue deliverin’, chills up that spine, that ass is mine, skip the wine and the candlelight, no Cristal tonight,if it’s alright with you,we fuckin’…”…
Throwback Thursday – Who Would You Rather Date?
I’ll admit my set up and deliver could’ve been better when I created the hypothetical post years ago. It was the golden age of open Black gay athletes and ‘No Fats, No Fems’ dating victimization hysteria. Every Black gay with an opinion wanted to be…
Mr. Robinson and The Graduates: Dating Younger Men
When an older masculine man approaches young dudes, they know exactly what’s up and will let him know if they are down for it in the first 30 seconds. We want sex, companionship or both.
QUESTION: What Happened To Dating Out In Public? Or Is It Just Me?
When I meet guys, nearly 100% of the time when it comes to meeting up for the “first date” they want me to come to their home to “hangout.” Is this the new norm?
Is Sexuality Truly Fluid or is its Glass Half Empty or Half Full?
About a month ago, being a comic book head, I saw the movie, “Professor Marston and the Wonder Women”. This movie is a biopic about Harvard psychologist and inventor Dr. William Moulton Marston. I am eager to learn about fascinating people and Dr. Marston is…
CA Podcast #71 – The “Shade Me At Hello” Episode
In this episode, Ocky Williams and Nick Delmacy discuss Gay Day Parties, Getting Shaded by Gay Men, Guys in the Gym, If Nick’s Nephew is Gay, Being over 40 in the Gay Community, Social Media & Body Image Issues, Dating Out Of Your League, Masculine Privilege, and a lot of random shit!
CA Podcast #68 – The “Coolest Shithole in the Jungle” Episode
In this podcast, Ocky Williams and Nick Delmacy discuss the H&M controversy, if 2018 will be the Year of the White Person, things they don’t want carried over from 2017, Donald Trump’s “Shithole” comment, Religion and Dating, Nick’s Adventures in Dating, the Army Bae distraction, Ginuwine refusing to kiss a trans-woman, if it’s okay to ask if a person is masculine or feminine on dating apps, the new Beard Game craze, dating Frank Ocean vs dating Donald Glover and many more topics!
CA Podcast #67 – The “Night King Inappropriately Touched Me” Episode
In this podcast, Ocky Williams and Nick Delmacy discuss Nick’s level of Pettiness, the Grammy Award Nominations, if Tyler the Creator is really Bisexual or is just being gay-vague to sell records, two Black brothers permanently changing their eye color, sexy teenagers who look like grown men, if Nick has a “Peter Pan Syndrome,” the four reasons HE may not be ready for YOU, why dating men is like binge watching TV shows, the four stage of a relationship and many more topics!
When is Offensive Language Not Offensive
A couple of weeks ago I had a grandiose idea of doing a podcast involving other Cypher Avenue squad members. Due to scheduling conflicts I was only able to chat it up with member @BlackguyExecutive aka Winston Chesterfield. We had a cool conversation concerning “When is…
Dear Ocky, I’m Being Treated Like a Side Piece
In this podcast we read a viewer’s email asking for relationship advice. Check out the letter below followed by my advice and commentary. Dear Ocky, Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 14 months. I’m 27 and he’s 41. With both work and…
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