Throwback Thursday – Who Would You Rather Date?
I’ll admit my set up and deliver could’ve been better when I created the hypothetical post years ago. It was the golden age of open Black gay athletes and ‘No Fats, No Fems’ dating victimization hysteria. Every Black gay with an opinion wanted to be…
How Soon Is Too Soon To Reveal Your Freaky Side?
How soon is too soon for a dude you’re newly dating to make freaky, outside of your norm requests while being intimate?
How Do You Get Ready For a Date?
How do you get ready for a date? I think it goes without saying that a shower or possible shave is obvious, but what are some quirkier, or out of the box things you personally do to get yourself ready for a date? For example,…
Is Your Religion Keeping You From Finding a Good Man?
Even though I’m not in the dating game, I still partake in reading and loosely discussing dating, relationships and sex related subject matter on social media and blogs. Something that I’ve noticed (outside of the “No Fats, No Fems” conversations) that is NEVER talked about…
I Want Sex. My Husband Doesn’t. We’ve Hit a Dry Spell
Hey Cypher Ave Fam, So I recently been experiencing a dilemma in my relationship/marriage. We hit a dry spell and I can’t figure out what the problem is, although we are both markedly busier. We’ve always been busy and had full schedules but that…
NICK’S ADVENTURES IN DATING #1: Black Gays in Atlanta Be Like…
Nick Delmacy documents his dating journey in a new series called, “Nick’s Adventures in Dating.”
Let’s Play A Game: Weird Science – What Would Your Perfect Guy Look Like?
If you had the ability to weird scientifically create a “Perfect Guy,” what would your parameters be?
[QUESTION] Single Black Gay Men: Why Do You Even WANT To Be In A Relationship?!
If all the examples and discussions we have about Relationships are from a negative perspective, why do so many single black gay men want to be in one so badly?
QUESTION: Three Types of Men, Which Would You DATE If They Were Gay?
Magazines
While in the supermarket today I saw these three magazine covers and had to ask The Squad:
Which of these 3 very different types of dudes would you date if he was gay?
Top Dating Websites for Gay Men
Dating is a reoccurring theme here on Cypher Avenue. Where to find a man, how to get a man, how to keep a man, how to date a man, what type of man do I let climb up on my back, I’ve found a man…
QUESTION: Do Sexy Straight Men Go For Unattractive Mates More Than Gays?
Personally, I rarely see a fine black gay dude with someone busted or “average.”
That Time I Was “Reverse Slut Shamed” By A Black Gay Man
Yesterday I was speaking with a friend on the phone and I experienced something that has happened many times before. I was reverse slut shamed. Out of respect, I won’t say the friend’s real name but for now let’s just call him “Schmocky Schmilliams.” Just…
CA Podcast #45 – The “Settling For Him” Episode (Part 2)
In this podcast, hosts Octavius Williams and Nick Delmacy continue their previous discussion about dating and relationships by inquiring if Black Gay Men are prone to settling for what’s available to them.
CA Podcast #44 – The “Working On Me” Episode (Part 1)
In this podcast, hosts Octavius Williams and Nick Delmacy discuss the official start of Cuffin’ Season and Self Esteem Issues that have affected them in their dating lives over the years.
ATTENTION SINGLE GAY MEN: Cuffin’ Season 2015 is Upon Us!
Regular readers of Cypher Avenue know full well that when October rolls around, two important events happen: Our annual Halloween obsession will be coming soon and it’s also the official start of Cuffin’ Season!